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J.Says Journal: Out of Forgiveness?

10/13/2011

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10/10/11 11:11pm
Ever wonder when to stop forgiving? When do you stop quickly “getting over” what angers or hurts you because most of the time, the offender doesn’t offend? How do you fairly define and create the list of “1 Bad Things” that will over-ride all of the previous good?


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Crystal W.
10/20/2011 07:22:24 am

It kinda depends on how you define "forgiveness". I think the idea is that you don't hold on to whatever someone has done to you so you can bring it out during the next big fight. Instead of making lists of all the bad, you recognize the good in people. You don't let the memory of what stupid thing someone did hold you down. What they did doesn't have to make you bitter. Forgiveness has more to do with yourself and your own happiness than it does with the other person. It's a heart thing.

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